why MYOB?

why MYOB?

..........it is not just a senseless string of words but I claim it to be a noble cause. It is not just politically correct but the key , a very commanding phrase of stopping meddling, the act of getting into the affairs of others.

Now going back to the promised list of instances ( where MYOB is badly needed !!) ; )

showing the most debilitating effects of meddling..

-failed marriages because of the infamous "biyenan-superiority complex"

-this cause for unnatural behavior: being conscious of what other people will say, you tend to conform, making you live in a shell that you dont want.

-if you're the meddler: it will be obviously branding you as "insecure", you can't act on your own, you feed on the misfortune of other people. This is detrimental to growth as this keeps the meddler from focusing on her own progress.

-if you've been meddled upon: consider the feeling of helplessness, things that you should've resolve now gets complicated.

-causes animosity between the meddler and the meddled upon

-meddling is also synanimous to rumor mongering, the act of spreading rumor like wildfire..This is the most absurd and adverse of all which does not only involve two parties but a number, even including a whole community. Gossip or rumors always has resulted to an enourmous circus.

-meddling may also be an end-result of the so-called "crab mentality": We tend to berrate or project our frustrations to people climbing up the ladder.

I could go on and on with the numerous unfavorable consequences of this abhorrent way ...till next post then. Let's see how this can make sense.. ;